Defiance in children is at the top of the list of parenting concerns. 
You know…when your kid says, “No” or when they just keep doing what they want despite your objections.

Some of you even have t…

Defiance in children is at the top of the list of parenting concerns.
You know…when your kid says, “No” or when they just keep doing what they want despite your objections.

Some of you even have to manage hitting, yelling, and aggression.

Today we are learning why this happens and how to start taking some steps toward getting this defiance to stop.

In fact when you comment with the word:

ABC

you will receive our template to learning the ABC’s to figuring out what is causing a behavior and what is sustaining it.

Defiance is embarrassing, frustrating and can leave you hopeless.

Now you will have insight on why it is happening, how to address it, and how to find out what is personally triggering your child to use defiance as a response.

Remember to comment with:

ABC

to get your template that will guide you in the ABC’s to figuring out your child’s behavior.

48 Comments

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    Melissa Lynn

    Posted May 23, 2019 3:22 pm

    ABC

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      Behavior Corner, LLC

      Posted May 23, 2019 3:36 pm

      sent ??

    • by

      Behavior Corner, LLC

      Posted May 23, 2019 3:36 pm

      sent 👍👍

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    Jacquie Morgante

    Posted May 23, 2019 4:14 pm

    I used ABC when I worked in the educational setting. I actually wrote BIPs ! ?

    • by

      Behavior Corner, LLC

      Posted May 23, 2019 5:06 pm

      Jacquie Morgante and I currently do! FBAs and BIPs
      ABC really works to get to the root of behaviors ?

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    Jacquie Morgante

    Posted May 23, 2019 4:14 pm

    I used ABC when I worked in the educational setting. I actually wrote BIPs ! 😂

    • by

      Behavior Corner, LLC

      Posted May 23, 2019 5:06 pm

      Jacquie Morgante and I currently do! FBAs and BIPs
      ABC really works to get to the root of behaviors 👍

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:04 pm

    Yes, the people we hang out with have an enormous impact

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:43 pm

      Murielle Fellous we tend to become like them.

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:05 pm

    Yes screen time, especially when we have kids who need to be more active. Their system gets on overload. I see that with my son and his angry reactions

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      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:40 pm

      Murielle Fellous yes! It’s up to us parents to make sure screen time is limited! Behaviors are sooooo much better when kids play via means of exercise and being social in face-to-face situations.
      I’m a HUGE supporter of putting the screens away!

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:07 pm

    Yes! Because we serve as models to them.

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:42 pm

      Murielle Fellous always ❤️

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:08 pm

    I saw that with my children when they were bullied, before I became aware of it.

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:41 pm

      Murielle Fellous oh wow! Good to know and for us to consider with our kids ?

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:41 pm

      Murielle Fellous oh wow! Good to know and for us to consider with our kids 🤔

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:09 pm

    Control, I notice they need to feel they have some, even with my teenagers

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:41 pm

      Murielle Fellous it’s part of growing and wanting independence, right?!?!

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:10 pm

    I love that you’re so passionate

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:16 pm

    Yes, even as adults. We learn from our past results and how we obtained them. Very often it is unconscious

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:37 pm

      Murielle Fellous Learned behavior is all around us ?

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:37 pm

      Murielle Fellous Learned behavior is all around us 😉

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    Murielle Fellous

    Posted May 24, 2019 2:28 pm

    Yes because it becomes harder to install consistency when they are teenagers

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:41 pm

      Murielle Fellous parents need to know this!

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    Nicole Isler

    Posted May 24, 2019 4:05 pm

    Yes solutions and support

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:43 pm

      Nicole Isler we need both to survive this journey of parenthood ?

    • by

      Barb Roba

      Posted May 24, 2019 6:43 pm

      Nicole Isler we need both to survive this journey of parenthood 🥰

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    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:16 am

    What they’re watchin is SO important

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:16 am

    SO interesting

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:17 am

    I’ve taught my son breathing to cope with frustration

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    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:17 am

    Yeah, they want to feel in control of somethinng

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:18 am

    LOL 🙂

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:18 am

    consistency is HUGE

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:19 am

    I’m listening REAL hard right now and taking notes!

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:19 am

    “i know if i act in a certain way, i’m going to get a certain result”

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:20 am

    kids KNOW stuff

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    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:21 am

    That’s great. I think I’m doing that with myh son. Gonna be aware to do that more

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    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:21 am

    Ooo! That’s good. What’s the motivator

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    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:22 am

    My kid is motivated with things only for a short while then he’s over it. LOL!

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:22 am

    They know a lot, but we still have to teach them 🙂

  • by

    Ella Glasgow Binion

    Posted June 6, 2019 11:24 am

    Follow through!

    • by

      Behavior Corner, LLC

      Posted June 7, 2019 5:55 pm

      Ella Glasgow Binion always!

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